A man who obsessively controlled his partner’s life has been sentenced for his actions.
Between October 1, 2022, and February 1, 2024, James Nash, 40, of Marlborough, repeatedly checked the victim’s phone, called her obsessively while she was at work, turned up at her place of work unannounced, demanded proof over who she was with, and regularly accused her of cheating.
He also demanded she turn on the live location feature on her phone to prove where she was, ordered who she could and couldn’t speak to, and took control of the key to her property.
In a victim impact statement, the victim, aged in her 30s, said: “I was always frightened that I’d do something wrong and scared James would lose his temper. I was on edge all the time, I felt useless, helpless and completely trapped.
“I was unable to see my friends, family or even go to work without him following me.
“Nowhere was private, nowhere was safe.
“I still lack the confidence I had in myself before James. I have seen a counsellor, and she helped a bit, but I’ve still got a long way to go.”
The victim bravely reported the incidents to the police and Nash was arrested and charged.
He pleaded guilty to controlling and coercive behaviour in a hearing in March.
On Friday (06/06), he appeared at Winchester Crown Court where he was sentenced to two years’ imprisonment, suspended for two years.
He is also required to complete 80 hours of unpaid work and to attend up to 26 sessions in a rehabilitation programme.
He is also the subject of a restraining order for five years.
DC Dan England said: “Nash behaved in an obsessive, jealous and controlling manner, attempting to ensure that the victim had no life of her own.
“His actions caused the victim to feel frightened and constantly on edge, including at work where he would repeatedly bombard her with calls or turn up unannounced, meaning the victim could never relax.
“The judge described Nash’s behaviour as amounting to serious, substantial abuse and I agree with that description.
“The victim bravely reported the incident to the police and Nash was arrested.
“Wiltshire Police will always listen to victims of controlling and coercive behaviour and domestic abuse and ensure that perpetrators like Nash are put before the courts.”
If you are suffering from abuse or suspect someone you know is, please contact us on 101 or 999 in an emergency.
You can contact support organisations such as Paragon or Fearfree who will help you.
More details on support agencies can be found on the Wiltshire Police website: Advice about domestic abuse | Wiltshire Police
If you are concerned about your own behaviour we’d also urge you to seek help. There are support services available to those who recognise and want to change their harmful behaviours in relationships including Open2Change.
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